What is the ideal age to start music lessons?

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What is the ideal age to begin music lessons?

We consider music as the essence of life. It provides the ability for self-expression and fulfills an important part of the human character. The study of music with the intention to be able to play an instrument requires some time and dedication and that part of the process is precise.

Children begin taking music lessons for many reasons like family traditions, part of the overall child’s developmental process, and last but not least because it’s fun and enjoyable.  We have all heard about Mozart writing his first symphony at the age of eight or Stevie Wonder singing with Motown at age 11. Even if your child is not performing with the New York Philharmonic or the Chicago Symphony by age 11 (like violinist Midori and Herbie Hancock, respectively), your family is constantly exposed to talented children in the neighborhood, church or school. It seems as if parents must immerse their children in music lessons from birth if they want them to succeed, and in a way, they’re right.

That being said, parents often hear complaints from other parents that influence them to postpone music lessons until their child is older, such as “My parents forced me to play an instrument when I was young. … I hated it then and still hate it now.” In order to avoid this negative attitude, parents opt to delay music lessons until their child is older and can choose their own instrument or make the decision that they even want to play an instrument. They too are right.

There is a growing (and convincing) body of research that indicates a “window of opportunity” from birth to age nine for developing a musical sensibility within children. During this time, the mental structures and mechanisms associated with processing and understanding music are in the prime stages of development, making it of utmost importance to expose children in this age range to music.

Our philosophy at Fairytale Piano Academy is that the important question is not WHEN to start lessons, but WHAT is the goal of music lessons for young children? For instance, very young children are not exposed to instruments in order to master them, but to gain experience and learn to develop meaningful relationships with music at a young age. If this is your goal, then the “lessons” can and should start soon after birth and certainly within the child’s first year.

These “lessons” do not have to be—in fact, at first probably shouldn’t be—very formal. A parent can serve as guide by immersing the child in a musical environment. You should help your child focus on the music with simple movement activities such as musical games, swaying or dancing while holding the baby, or singing or playing an instrument for the child.

Once the child is around age three, it may be time for more formalized “lessons.” Again, the goal is not to learn to play an instrument but to further develop skills like identifying a beat in music, identifying melody, or identifying instruments. Fairytale Piano Academy offers these parent-child lessons and thrives to stay in constant tune with the parents goal’s and expectations especially at such a young age..

 By age five, most children have built a foundation that has prepared them for formalized music lessons. Even now, the goal of the lessons is not to become a great performer on the instrument but to further the understanding of music. Piano and violin are the two most common instruments played at this age, but others have tried the recorder, guitar, or ukulele with success.

 By age 10, the child will have a variety of skills associated with their instrument of choice. They’ll also have the physical strength to try a different, bigger instrument, such as a brass or large string instrument that requires a higher level of strength and stamina. Around this time, the goal of lessons appropriately transitions from gaining experience with music to improving performance ability.

In summary, there are three answers to the question, “What age should children begin music lessons?” Informal activities with music should start soon after birth, followed by more systematic classes around age three, and lessons with the goal of learning the instrument should start between six and nine. Keep in mind that these are only guidelines; exceptions will undoubtedly occur based on the child and/or teacher. Musical experience at an early age is extremely important in a child’s developmental process. Like riding a bike or learning a language, these skills can be learned later in life, but they will never be “natural” in the way that is so important for fluid musical performance

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  1. Sarah Osborne

    This was a very helpful article! I’ve often wondered about this. Besi, if you lived in WA I would totally sign Lydia up for piano lessons with you!!

    • Hi Sara. We would have loved to teach Lydia to play. Next time you are in Temecula we will give her a mini session :) Hugs

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